Deputy's Desk
Social Media Awareness
There are plenty of good things about social media — but also many risks and things children should avoid. They don't always make good choices when they post something to a site, and this can lead to problems. So it's important to talk with your children about how to use social media wisely.
- "Stranger danger" - Take it seriously
Children may find it hard to judge strangers they meet in person, and it's even harder to tell friends from foes online. Stress to your children that they should not interact with strangers on these apps, and explain that many people on social media are not who they say they are.
- (Over) Sharing information - Don't reveal too much
Children should be aware of how much they are revealing about themselves online. It is important that your children do not share their location or use apps that let people track their movements.
- Hidden info in photos - Beware of posting pics
Children should know the potential risks of what they're posting online. Photographs are no exception. Parents of primary and secondary school age children should discuss the fact that photographs contain location information, which could potentially help a stranger find them.
- The staying power of social media - Consider the future
Children need to fully grasp that what is posted on social media can have long-term consequences. What may seem like a funny joke at the time could potentially be accessed later by colleges and employers.
- Cyberbullying - Ask, "will others get hurt?"
Talk to your children about bullying and enforce the idea of not joining friends who are gossiping about or teasing others online. Encourage them to reflect on what they are posting.
"Is this going to hurt someone's feelings?
How would I feel if this message came to me?
Does this feel threatening in any way?"
Astrid Morgan